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Working with Others: Understanding Difference, Enhancing Influence, Reducing Conflict
About 20 - 80 training
Introducing 20 - 80 training (4:51)
A little about the trainer - Chris Grimsley (3:57)
Introducing NLP
Recognising the Human Side of Work - The Organisational Iceberg
Recognising the human side of work - The Organisational Iceberg (9:15)
Introduction to Working with Others
Welcome to the course (3:05)
Section 1: Some basic psychology - Understanding Perception
Introduction to Section 1
How we make sense of the outside world: Introducing the Communication Model (4:46)
The Communication Model continued - the impact of our filters on perception (2:48)
Traffic lights, torchbeams, and perception - the NLP Communication Model, video footage from live training (15:01)
Activity: List 12 Things exercise (1:29)
List 12 Things Exercise Feedback (2:56)
Quiz: Check your understanding of Section 1, Perception, Thinking & Behaviour
Effective Learning and the Learning Cycle (1:28)
Section 1 - Reflecting on Learning, Using the Content
Section 2: Individual Difference and the impact of preferred senses
Introduction to Section 2
Individual Difference - We are as different on the inside as we look different on the outside! (5:09)
Preferred Senses ('Representational Systems') (1:37)
Preferred Senses ('Representational Systems') Part 2 (9:32)
Activity: Identifying Preferred Senses
Does some people’s behaviour drive you crazy? The impact of Preferred senses described - video extract from live training (22:15)
Quiz: Check your understanding of Section 2
Section 2 - Reflecting on Learning, Using the Content
Section 3: Improving Rapport
Introduction to Section 3
Getting better rapport: where we take meaning in communication (4:52)
Matching and mirroring for rapport - video extract from live training (18:53)
Activity: Matching, Mismatching and Rapport
Talking their language - matching sensory based words('Predicates') (3:18)
Activity: Noticing 'predicates' (sensory based language)
Activity: Predicates exercise for groups (2:43)
Quiz: Check your understanding of Section 3
Section 3 - Reflecting on Learning, Using the Content
Section 4: More ways to understand difference, and how to influence
Introduction to Section 4
Understanding difference (1:14)
Chunking (5:51)
Thinking about Chunking
Internal - External Referencing (4:33)
Thinking about Internal - External Reference
Preferred work environment (5:40)
Thinking about Preferred Environment
Quiz: Check your understanding of Section 4
Section 4 - Reflecting on Learning, Using the Content
Section 5: Influencing Language
Introduction to Section 5
How words can influence
Influencing Language: The word 'when' (3:29)
The 'When' word - Video footage from live training (7:49)
More Influencing Language: Do do's rather than don't do's - Say what you want, rather than don't want (4:01)
Practice - Turn 'don't do' into 'do do'
Dealing with 'BUT' (2:09)
The dangers of the word 'Try' (3:03)
Quiz: Check your understanding of Section 5
Section 5 - Reflecting on Learning, Using the Content
Section 6: Handling situations better: Perceptual Positions
Introduction to Section 6
Handling Difficult Situations Better - Perceptual Positions (6:00)
Using Perceptual Positions audio guide
Quiz: Check your understanding of Section 6
Section 6 - Reflecting on Learning, Using the Content
Summary and What Next
Summary: Working with Others
Quiz: Check your understanding: Working with Others - understanding difference
'Working with Others' Programme: Reflecting and Planning (2:09)
Course handout pack
What next: More about 20-80 Programmes
Resources for further learning
Online NLP video resources
Live training
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Preferred Senses ('Representational Systems')
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